Friendship with mutual privilege to each other and covenant friendship is the two basic relationship a Christian needs to make a successful journey of his/her life. Get details on covenant relationship here.
SOME TIMES GOD BRINGS IN SOME PEOPLE TO SHOW US A GLIMPS OF WHAT HE HAS IN HIS WILL FOR US. Most of these times we clung to those people … Continue Reading QUOTES OF THE DAY
The case of Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego is another biblical examples of Covenant relationships that is completely Divine. Theirs is a highlight of Proverbs 18:24 ‘a friend who sticks closer than a brother’. The Divine factor in their relationship is most overwhelming in the various ways God used them to show King Nebuchadnezzar and the entire Babylonians that God is great and the only God .
Friendship, if chosen right, can be a great source of love, healing, joy, knowledge, mentorship, influence, companionship, partnership, motivation, encouragement etc.
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Many attempt to define virginity brings the above verse of the Bible to mind.
Introduction Can a Christian say ‘l love you’ to a fellow believer without the fear of being misunderstood or having his motives misinterpreted? Many of my African friends may answer … Continue Reading ‘I LOVE YOU’ Can a Christian Say ‘l Love You’ to a Fellow Believer?
Who is a real man? A real man is one who has began to position himself to take responsibilities. Features of a Real Man A real man is not afraid … Continue Reading A REAL MAN; Jesus and the Woman of Samaria(Jn4:1-34)
A man must understand the importance of building dignity and honor around women. The proverb 31 man cultivated the influence of his wife and released her.
CAN WE GO BACK TO THE GOOD OLD DAYS? Marking the Time Between the Old and the New Dispensation in Christain Relationships!
Introduction Living in the 21st century all by itself is a challenge by defaults! There is a need for a redefinition of a lot of concepts and ideas(paradigms) to stand … Continue Reading CAN WE GO BACK TO THE GOOD OLD DAYS? Marking the Time Between the Old and the New Dispensation in Christain Relationships!
What makes men quit? T’s not the firm resistance in a ladies disposition T’s not the yes in the NO of a lady T’s not her un-reciprocal disposition T’s not … Continue Reading WHEN MEN QUIT
It is the honor of a woman in her integrity to be given every explanation until she is cleared, certified and willing to admit so… Ede S.S. It is in … Continue Reading Women and Silence
WHEN, AND WHAT SHOULD I TEACH MY DAUGHTER ABOUT RELATIONSHIP? A Father’s Evening Chatt With His Daughter
Ladies take guys word too seriously. Guys can say something now and tomorrow they’ve forgotten; Especially when under influence. Though they are not like ladies that are influenced by biological cycles They still have their own cycle_like success, failure, happy mood, loneliness(especially), crisis and idleness too. Daughter: So true
Someone can pray for oneself; I used to pray and try to be friends to people like they are my siblings. And learn to feel free when people say words like: ‘I love you’. Just say ThANK YOU, That’s one way to show is nothing. To say I love You actually is nothing is just because we are in an African setting. Daughter: Yes ooh! Our society made it so as you say. Father: When one loves YOU he goes beyond the words to make it work. Love is meant to be expressed and not merely confessed. However when ladies say I ‘love you’. It means a lot so they hardly say it.
Life of relationship is like a Ladder, Everyone is trying to reach up. So the realities that Someone will be aiming to have the expression of his love accepted by another somewhat higher While someone somewhere lower is wishing to have him take his love expression. The implication of this is on the ladies whose integrity it is to say yes. A lady must not give herself cheaply to any guy… That does not imply doing preventive shakara. But it does mean not falling for a guy/putting your heart in it until he proves and makes it work.
Love is an exercise of the divine will in deliberate choice, made without assignable cause save that which lies in the nature of God Himself.
Many people in the Church are lonely. My realization of this marked a climax in my perspective of relationship.
Who is qualified for a Christian relationship?
Christian relationship in the most scenario has existed in the church more as a hidden or pretentious act rather than a valued behavior. Recently truth has become very accessible; such that a better solution would be to x-ray the situation properly.
Thus, one is qualified for a Christian relationship if he/she had secured a provable relationship with God through faith in Jesus Christ.
God draws us together to Himself for privileges of relationship with Him and with one another; for a fellowship with Him and with one another (‘fading’in UNEC)
Friendship is an extension of fellowship with one another
People who are without God do not truly understand love and therefore cannot truly understand friendship. I John4:20
Relationships are very potent for a successful journey of life. Relationships are one of the key tools God uses to purposefully work in the lives of His potential vessels. Especially, divine relationships are God’s means of taking us through to the purposes of our life.